Is Your Cat Stressed? Signs, Causes, and How to Help

Is your cat acting differently and you’re worried they might be stressed? This article covers signs of cat stress, possible causes, and simple ways you can help. Learn how to keep your cat feeling calm and happy.

Is Your Cat Stressed? Signs, Causes, and How to Help
Stressed cat biting its owner

Wouldn't it be great if your cat could tell you exactly how it feels? They could share stories about their adventures, their opinions on their favorite humans, and even let you know when something’s wrong. 

But since they can’t, it’s up to you to understand their signals. Cats have their own way of showing stress and anxiety, and recognizing the signs means you can easily manage it and help them feel better. Here are 22 signs to watch for

22 Signs of A Stressed and Anxious Cat

Hiding more than usual – Your cat is suddenly impossible to find, spending extra time under the bed or in the closet.

Over-grooming – Biting and pulling at fur so much that it causes bald spots or skin irritation.

Loss of appetite – Ignoring food, even their favorites.

Sudden aggression – A once-friendly cat now hissing, swatting, or even biting out of nowhere.

Nonstop meowing or yowling – Loud, excessive vocalizations, especially at unusual times.

Litter box issues – Peeing outside the box for no clear reason.

Destructive scratching – Clawing at furniture, walls, or places they know they shouldn’t.

Sleep changes – Either sleeping way more than usual or barely sleeping at all.

Tail twitching – Repeated, sharp flicks like their tail is picking up alien signals.

Pacing non-stop – Walking back and forth like they can’t settle down.

Loss of interest in play – Ignoring toys or acting uninterested in things they used to love.

Constantly dilated pupils – Wide eyes for long periods, even when not playing.

Clinginess – Suddenly glued to your side, needing extra attention.

Pinned-back ears – Flattened for long stretches, like they’re about to take off in flight.

Heavy breathing or panting – Fast breathing, even when they haven’t been running.

Stiff, tense posture – Body held low and tight, ready to bolt at any second.

Excessive shedding – Way more hair loss than usual, even outside of shedding season.

Overly affectionate – More cuddly than usual, but in an almost desperate way.

Digestive issues – Diarrhea or constipation with no diet change.

Shaking easily – Trembling at the smallest noises or sudden movements.

Lethargy and sickness signs – Unusually low energy, vomiting, or other signs of illness.

Frequent nose licking – Constantly licking their nose more than usual.

Cute stressed tabby kitten licking its nose

14 Causes of Stress and Anxiety in Cats

Just as there are many signs of a stressed cat, there are also many causes for stress and anxiety. Figuring out what it might be will help you easily remove the stressor.

Psychological causes

Separation anxiety

PTSD in rescue cats

Lack of entertainment or stimulation

Aging-related nervous system changes

Behavioral causes

Fleas or other parasites

Allergy or infection

Dirty litter box or eating area

Litter box and food bowl placed too close together

Environmental causes

Loud noises

A neighborhood cat bothering them

New housemate (baby, parent, or roommate)

Changes in the environment (new pet, new person, new scent, moved furniture)

Toxic or medical causes

Exposure to toxic substances (lavender, tea tree oil, etc.)

Toxic plants (lilies, tulips, azaleas, oleander, etc.)

Small cute white and grey kitten smelling a daisy in the garden

14 Ways to Manage Your Cat’s Stress and Anxiety

Schedule a vet visit 

Rule out any underlying health issues like infections, irritation, or pain that could be causing your cat stress.

Use a calming pheromone diffuser 

These mimic natural cat pheromones to create a sense of security and relaxation for your cat.

Make playtime a priority 

Interactive play with wand toys, lasers, or puzzle feeders keeps your cat’s body and mind engaged.

Keep the litter box clean 

Your cat hates a dirty toilet as much as you do, so regular cleaning is a must.

Experiment with different types of litter 

Your cat may prefer certain textures, and switching can make a big difference.

Place the litter box in a quiet, easily accessible spot 

Avoid high-traffic or noisy areas that might make your cat feel uneasy.

Use multiple litter boxes in multi-cat households 

This reduces territorial disputes and gives each of your cats their own space.

Create safe zones 

Cozy beds, covered hideouts, or even simple cardboard boxes in quiet areas give your cat a retreat.

Minimize loud noises 

If you can’t lower the volume, take your cat to a quieter spot where they can feel safe.

Respect your cat's space 

Avoid forced cuddles or picking them up if they seem overwhelmed. Let your cat come to you.

Add vertical spaces 

Cat trees, shelves, and perches let your cat climb and observe from a safe, elevated position.

Increase mental stimulation 

Puzzle toys and treat-dispensing games keep your cat’s brain active and reduce anxiety.

Stick to a routine 

Regular feeding, play, and sleep schedules help your cat feel secure and in control.

Check for medical issues if yowling persists 

Dental pain, urinary tract infections, or other health concerns could be causing your cat distress.

Black cat playing with a rope

Final Thoughts

Cats are naturally sensitive and easy to straddle. They don’t need this added stress. Just like in humans, lots of stress and anxiety can cause medical issues in cats too.

The sooner you notice your cat is disturbed, the sooner you can act and help them out. The most they could do is show you they’re stressed. The least you could do it notice they’re asking for your help.